Adriana Chechik on Mar. 31 @ 6pm PST
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Nice Guys DON’T Finish Last!

“I read several dozen stories a year from miserable, lonely guys who insist that women won’t come near them despite the fact that they are just the nicest guys in the world.

..I’m asking what do you offer? Are you smart? Funny? Interesting? Talented? Ambitious? Creative? OK, now what do you do to demonstrate those attributes to the world? Don’t say that you’re a nice guy — that’s the bare minimum.

“Well, I’m not sexist or racist or greedy or shallow or abusive! Not like those other douchebags!”

I’m sorry, I know that this is hard to hear, but if all you can do is list a bunch of faults you don’t have, then back the fuck away…

Don’t complain about how girls fall for jerks; they fall for those jerks because those jerks have other things they can offer. “But I’m a great listener!” Are you? Because you’re willing to sit quietly in exchange for the chance to be in the proximity of a pretty girl (and spend every second imagining how soft her skin must be)? Well guess what, there’s another guy in her life who also knows how to do that, and he can play the guitar. Saying that you’re a nice guy is like a restaurant whose only selling point is that the food doesn’t make you sick. You’re like a new movie whose title is This Movie Is in English, and its tagline is “The actors are clearly visible”.”

David Wong (via thatlitsite)

And I wanted to give this writing a credit, I would never take credit for something someone else wrote, but this is the closest I could find. I HOPE it’s written by David Wong, here is a link to his Tumblr blog page. If anybody has anymore info than this, please share! I think I would like to read more of this author’s work!;)

My take:

I agree with this to a degree, and I like the message that it’s sending, but I have to make one personal note: I DON’T “fall for jerks.” (Sure, maybe in my teens and early 20s, but I’m way past the point of letting ANYBODY “jerky” in my life. Also, I’m over dating guys who woo me with playing the guitar.. but it was just an example..

I think what they’re saying, and what I’m def saying is.. “Being “NICE” IS a requirement, but it’s a BARE MINIMUM.” I’m attracted to genuine, honest, sweet, generous men. ? But there has to be MORE.. Personally, I’m a very motivated person with many interests, hobbies. I do porn, but I also do many other things.. I’m never bored! I always have a list of things I would like to do, places I have yet to explore, things I want to do.. I always want MORE out of life.. there is so much out there, and I want to see it ALL.. I need to be with someone who is the same. If a man or woman didn’t have as many passions and interesting things about them that make them DYNAMIC, I couldn’t bring myself to be with them.
I’ve been in relationships where I was the “motivated one” and the other person took a more “chill” outlook on life, and I would come home after working 12hours of webcamming, and go straight to answering emails, then started cleaning up the mess he made..and he would be playing video games.. Now I have nothing against people like that, sometimes I wish I could be more laid back like that.. but would it work out in the long run for me and that person? Def not..
Also, do we have the same outlook/style sexually? If he’s “cool with my job,” that’s a big plus.. but if he doesn’t like fucking that much, is very vanilla in his fucking style, if the sex is same every time.. well, he might be “NICE” AND dynamic, and charming, and all of the other tributes I listed, but if our sexual styles aren’t the same, it’s not going to work out, and there will end up being a lot of frustration/resentment over time.. Just 2 examples off of the top of my head..
Plus, I can’t be somebody’s “EVERYTHING,” even they completely love me, even if I completely love them. First of all, I simple don’t have the time to be with someone 24/7. Also, that’s not exactly healthy, and WILL get boring.

Anybody who thinks they’re being “too nice” or think maybe they should act like a jerk, even if they aren’t, because they think that attracts women, (or being anything except their exact SELVES) is being silly.. and even if it did work, would you want to be with a woman who is attracted to the BAD, or a fake side of you? If she doesn’t appreciate you for YOU, she doesn’t deserve to be with you, and you deserve better.. And if your rebuttal is “well, the girls I always like tend to be attracted to assholes..” Well, then maybe you need to start picking better women!;)

So, if you’re thinking things like “nice guys finish last,” I have to disagree with you, that’s just not true. Sure, some women date men that are wrong for them, everyone has done it, some of us more than once.. But being NICE to a woman and wondering why she’s not attracted to you isn’t going to do you any good, and it villifies woman and it puts you in a “victim” mentality.. I know it’s cliche, but to find love, you need LOVE YOURSELF first! Find out what, besides SEX, that interests you, and learn about it, research, find some things in your life to be passionate about. This is what will make you attractive to women, being INTERESTING, DYNAMIC, HAVING DEPTH, HAVING A LIFE outside of HER.. on top of bring NICE;)


Aaliyah Love XOXO <3


Custom Videos

Custom videos is a special thing some porn girls offer to their fans. It’s a way for the fans to get exactly the type of scene they want, from the girl that they want, for their eyes only!

But alas, it is something I haven’t had much time for these past few years. I have said NO to about 95% of the questions/inquiries over the last 2 years, simply because I didn’t have the time.. and it didn’t help that I didn’t exactly have all of the right equipment to make it easy enough for me to take the time to shoot and edit myself, and justify it.

But.. I missed doing it. And I’ve been starting to get a LOT of inquiries. I hate telling you guys no. And I love shooting custom vids! So now I’ve got a better grip on my schedule, I find a week or two a month where I COULD have time to shoot it, so I try to announce it ahead of time, and take 3 or 4 requests, then I’m not avail again for a month or so. Plus, admittedly, sometimes, such as now with my family situation and traveling back and forth, the extra income these custom videos I shoot “on the side” are a big help financially, and the give me something to do, and concentrate on.

I have never publicly posted my custom video prices, and I feel pretty weird doing it. Some girls do, some don’t, and I understand why both decide to do it that way. Some have a sliding scale depending on the acts requested in the video.. So I’m going to change how I’ve been doing it, answering emails/DMs/inquiries individually, and many times going back and forth 10 times, only to have wasted my time. And like I said, I’ve been getting way more questions about it that usual, and now for the next 2 weeks is the perfect time for me to shoot a few, if anybody wants them.. So here is an email reply I just sent a member of, I figured, eh, why the hell not, I will just post it publicly, and see if that helps. And knowing me, I might change my mind posting these prices and details by tomorrow, so read up now while you can LOL!

I hope this answers some questions for those of you considering purchasing custom porn from me. Every girl does it differently, we all have our own “style..” This is mine:


My custom videos are usually $550 for a 15 min video, or $600 cut into 2 8 min videos.

BUT.. for members of, I give huge discounts on everything (I also have a permanent discount code for my online store for members, if you’re ever interested in that, let me know, you can use it even after you stop being a member, if you would ever do such a bad thing! LOL!)
So for members,, it’s $350 for a 15min video, $400 for 2 10min clips. You can add an extra $50 for anything anal (I have my fingers, MANY buttplugs, or I can fuck myself with a toy..I can even DP myself with 2 toys if you want)

And you can choose the following: what I wear, what I say, the setting: on a couch, a bed, the floor, or on my kitchen counter. The way I masturbate, positions and the toy, or no toy (fingers) You can be as specific or general as you want, and I can include 5 custom pics taken from my phone just for you. If you want a different location that that, for example: outdoors, by a pool, or a hotel room, or a fancy shower or bathtub, I will have to rent a location, which is completely doable, but will add another $400-550 to the overall price, just something to keep in mind)

Also, it will never be posted anywhere on the internet, except for a link I will send to your email, 4 days or less after you have sent payment and I have confirmed it. This custom scene will be for YOUR EYES ONLY!!:)

If you want a girl/girl custom scene, I can also do that, but it’s an extra $500, to pay her, and there’s really only 3 girls I can get for sure. But that can be discussed and arranged!

As far as shooting schedule, I am leaving April 1 for over a week, maybe more like 2-3 weeks, it is unknown.. SO that means if you can pay by March 26, I can have your video and pics shot and emailed to you by the night before April 1. If not, you will have to wait until the end of April, or prob more like May 1 to start the process, but honestly, it could be later than that. Could be the end of May. I do not know my next availability to be able to shoot the next batch of custom vids, you would have to wait for that announcement. Usually I will know 1-2 weeks ahead.

Please let me know what you’re thinking, and Ill reply ASAP:) We can iron out what you want, discuss if I’m capable of all of it, set a solid price, and get the ball rolling! Then you can get your balls rolling! (ok, corny, weird joke, I know)

Custom porn is one of my fav things to do in the porn industry! I love acting out other people’s fantasies!

Aaliyah Love XOXO <3

Friday 13th Webcam Show

I’ll be doing a member’s webcam show tomorrow (or today, depending on when you’re reading this) on Friday the 13th.
As always it’s free for all members, you just click in thru the website. And all webcam shows are recorded and archived in the “live shows” area, if you can’t make it in person to my online party, or if you just want to watch it again! (omg I checked the other day.. they go back to 2011!)

and non-members can click in at
You can even plan ahead and sign up for a free CamModels account thru that link, so you don’t miss one minute of the fun;)

See you all then!!

Aaliyah Love XOXO


ps- and if any members want a shout-out at the start of tonight’s show, email me NOW! I will take requests up until 2 hours before the show.. then I wil be too busy getting pretty and cleaning my messy rom for you guys to be checking emails;)

Random Confession: Glory Holes

I have a confession to make: you know what really bums me out? I have never seen a real life glory hole. I don’t know why, but they fascinate me. I’m not talking about the kind that are made on a porn set, (which I still have yet to experience, but really really want to.. What companies do this? Can we start a campaign or something?) but the kind found “in the real World” You see, being a “hag,” or a “fruit fly” aka a girl who mostly hangs out with gay men, I hear stories about these things all of the time. My assistant once went to pick up my packages from my mailbox. He arranged with some random dude on Grindr to meet in a public bathroom conveniently across the street from my mailbox. Good for him! Well, he arrived before the other guy, got into the bathroom stall, and discovered a hole in the wall.. So, of course he put his dick in it., and some random person jerked him off! OMG! I never have that much fun when I run errands.. I prob shouldn’t of paid him for that day!
And it’s not just my gay friends who have confessed to me their sexy, juicy glory hole stories.. Having webcammed for many years, one of my favorite parts was always complete “strangers” (although many felt like close friends to me, I mean, after all of the intimacy we shared) have told me stories about glory hole experiences.. Most of the time in secret corridors in sex shops or places like that.. And I always listen intently, begging for more details.. I don’t know why, but I’m soooo intrigued!
BUT.. Every time I ask someone to take me to one of these places and show me one, they always have the same answer.. “AALIYAH! NO! You don’t want to go.. To a place like that!!” (Oh yes I do!) And what exactly do they mean.. A place.. “Like that?” Are they dirty? Scandalous? Don’t they realize I spend my time on porn sets? It just makes me want to go to one even more..

And for those of you wondering, NO, sorry, I wouldn’t participate.. I haven’t had any sort of sexual contact with someone who wasn’t STD tested within the last 14 days for.. I don’t even know how long.. over 6 years.. It’s part of my job to keep myself, and my sexual partners safe, it’s a social contract us pornstars enter to when we join the industry. It’s VERY sexy to know the person you’re with is clean and you can have no-holds-barred sex with them! Plus.. I’m very picky about the penises I touch in any way.. But.. would I like watch someone else participate? You betcha! I would probably pay to see it.. And I’m not talking about on film.. In person. I could be like, their cheerleader, encouraging both parties.. “Suck that dick! Get that cum! Have fun!”

So if any of you know of a glory hole, or have a story for me (no making it up! I only want true experiences!) plz plz tell me! You can post anon here, or, if you’re a member of, you can email it to me.. It won’t be anon, but hey, you know I won’t judge.. And anyways, you’ve seen me do “worse” ;) LOL


Aaliyah Love XOXO <3

Recent Interview For ‘Interracial Porn 411″

I’m really proud of this recent interview I did for the website, “Interracial Porn 411.” I have a lot of thoughts about the way the porn industry classifies our scenes, and us as performers, and the presence of racism in porn. But, I also try to keep a positive and hopeful thought towards the change I think we need and deserve, and I do see the industry headed in that direction lately, even if it’s not moving as fast as some of us would like.

Interracial porn 411 gave me an opportunity to voice my opinion on the matter, they called me up and let me go off for a bit. I’m very happy with how this interview/article turned out, so I wanted to share it all with you! Here are some snippets from the article here:

Aaliyah Love Interview – Where Brains & Beauty Collide

CB: You’re here because you have recently begun performing in interracial scenes. And your first interracial scene was for Elegant Angel in the movie Pretty Petite correct?

Aaliyah: Yes that’s correct. It was a choice and I chose that project in particular.


CB: What was it about that project in particular that made you choose that to be your first?

Aaliyah: LOL! Oh yes I had a lot of offers before this one but I wanted every interracial scene, especially my very first, to be just right. My biggest issue with interracial porn, and many performers share my sentiment, is the way it’s portrayed. Not throughout the industry, but what I believe to be “the majority” is something I don’t agree with. Ya know the whole “big scary black man taking advantage of an unsuspecting white woman” I just don’t agree with that. I just wanted it to be two beautiful people making love. So I went to Mimefreak, who directed the film, and I spoke to him about it. Luckily he agreed with me. I didn’t want the whole scene to be mentioning his big black cock or anything like that. I just wanted it to be two people fucking and that’s what we did.

CB: How do you feel about the term “interracial” in porn?

Aaliyah: I think the term interracial is absolutely ridiculous. When I fucked Keni Styles, who is an Asian man, it wasn’t labeled as interracial. When I fuck all those beautiful Latina girls that’s not labeled as interracial either. When you say interracial what you really mean is black guy and white woman. Now I understand it’s a category and in certain circumstances can even be considered a fetish. However, to fetishize it every single time kind of makes it seem as if it’s not a normal thing and I disagree. As a businesswoman I understand that some things like MILFs, teens, etc. are categorized for traffic purposes or to sell movies. But as a human being I think there is a level of racism involved in that characterization and I disagree. I know many female performers who refuse to do interracial. Many people like to speculate about their reasoning’s and call them racists or whatever. But I know many of these girls simply do not agree with the term interracial and don’t want to be part of any of that. Me personally, I did not want to limit any of my experiences or my performances and I knew me boycotting the term or the category wasn’t going to change anything in the industry. Therefore, I decided to do it. I’m very fortunate that I’m in a place that I can do so on my terms as far as who I fuck, how I fuck and personally I will never be a part of the derogatory, racist IR porn that we see from some. Now thankfully I’m seeing some progress in the market and industry taking a turn I think for the better. There are companies going for the romantic side and not even acknowledging or establishing in the scene that he’s black and white. However, we still have a long way to go.

CB: If there is one myth that you could debunk about interracial porn what would it be?

Aaliyah: A lot of the interracial porn that is already on the market portrays these black men as thugs, as rough men who disrespect women, etc. and the women as unsuspecting victims who are afraid of black men. I want you guys to truly know that these people are following scripts and nobody is there unless they want to be there. A lot of times you see these men arrive in very nice clothes speaking very properly and being very respectful. Only to be given a jersey and a gold chain by the producer and told to talk with the ghetto accent. Just because you see it on camera does not mean that is who that person is a real life. Porn performers are just that, “performers”.  I know this is a fantasy for some, but I think there are many fantasies that involve black men. I am just glad that the industry is turning somewhat to depict black men as the intelligent, strong, sexual beings that they are instead of the derogatory stereotype that racist white people think black people are which is ridiculous.

CB: Spoken like a true educator


You can read the rest of the article here:

And can I just say love is love, lust is lust, attraction is attraction, and that’s all that should matter. Labels are dumb, and my heart and vagina doesn’t discriminate based upon race, age, size, or gender;)

And feel free to repost or comment on this blog post! I would love to hear my fans opinions on the subject. And the article was done by @IRP411, fel free to follow him for more like this, or tweet him and let him know what you thought of this article.

Aaliyah Love <3


My first ever BGG 3some (boy/girl/girl) was on camera…no pressure! (but hey, go BIG or go home, amIright?) Not only that, but it was only my 5th or 6th b/g scene. Luckily for me, I got to pick who I wanted to be a part of one of my “firsts” that I will never forget.. so naturally I picked Cherie DeVille (NO surprise there!) and together we went to town on each other, and Danny Mountain. And A love affair with 3somes was born inside of me..


Since then I have done MANY BGG 3somes on camera. The company I have done the most for is Naughty America.. and they ALWAYS let me pick the talent.. So I have had some FUN sharing a cock with some of the hottest girls in porn..

I thought I would make it easy on you all and make a collection of all of these hot scenes here, for you all. If you’re a member of NA, please check out my scenes and give them high ratings if you like! (many companies pay close attention to members’ likes/dislikes, and requests, this is how us girls get hired back to shoot more!)

My latest BGG 3some scene is with the beautiful Ashley Fires. REUNITED AND IT FEELS SO GOOOD! Last time Ashley and I shot together, it was YEARS ago.. maybe 4 or 5.. for our websites, and 


The fans have been asking for a reunion ever since! The best thing is, we weren’t even supposed to shoot together this day.. we were both on set to shoot b/g scenes that day, and we kept on asking the photographer, Huggy, if we could shoot together. He made a phone call, they said yes, and the rest is history.. I asked Ashley to wear those cute red glasses.. I really think I have a “girls in glases” fetish!

Here’s another scene with the sexy milf, Ava Adams (and her amazing boobs!) I played the babysitter, she played the wife of an overly excited Johnny Castle, who THOUGHT I was trying to fuck them both.. we.. obv it didn’t take much convincing.. lol

I couldn’t wait to shoot with the adorable Kagney Lynn Karter for this scene, I have been watching her porn for years! It was a hot July day, and when they decided to put heron a bike and me on skates, I was elated. And yes, I kept the skates on for half of the sex!;)

Tasha Reign and I share Tyler Nixon’s cock in this bathroom 3some, it was my most popular Naughty America scene for a long time!

This isn’t exactly a 3some.. it was a BGGG.. my 1st and only so far! This was a special day.. I finally got to meet, and make love to the beautiful Allie Haze, and Amanda Tate was still fairly new, shy, and adorable. Steven St Croix handled the 3 of us like a CHAMP! I still masturbate to the memory of this scene sometimes;)

Aaaaand this weekend, I am flying to Vegas to shoot a new BGG 3some scene with Cherie Deville and man who BETTER be bringing his A-game, because I know we will be! I love Naughty America and if I had to encourage you all to join one website BESIDES, of course, it would be Check out the trailer vids and teaser pics from these hot scenes and let me know what you think!;)

 Aaliyah Love XOXO <3
New Webcam Show Sched

The next webcam show, free for all members of will be Friday the 13th! See you all then!:)

And if any members want a shoutout at the beginning of the show (new tradition) email me thru the members’ area now!

And as always, non-members can also click in and join the party here: but if you’re looking for the naughty part, I suggest you click in about half way thru the show, I usually talk thru the first half, discuss new scenes, answer questions, talk about random stuff.. and around 30-35mins if when I usually get naked and start “playing” if you know what I mean;)


Aaliyah Love XOXO <3


Confession: Sorry!!

SOOO ya know how I took a week off to go be with my Mom, and I got back 4 days ago.. and I announced hereon my blog and on my Twitter several times “I will get to ALL of the email!” Then “I answered ALL of the email! Check your inboxes!” Well.. I was LYING!!! gasp! But not on purpose. I just found about 10 emails that were HIDING FROM ME on a PAGE 2 that I never bothered to click.. I had no idea.. sooo.. several of you were probably wondering “wtf, Aaliyah?” oops! I’m sorry and I’ll be getting to your emails tonight!

And just to keep everyone up to date on my schedule.. by now I’m sure most, if not all of you understand what’s going on with my family.. Well right now we decided it’s best if I do 2-3 weeks herein Cali, to work, so I can pay my bills, check on my dogs, my home, etc.. then 1-2 weeks there, and so on.. My Mom is stronger than we thought and although he situation is terminal, she will be holding on for longer than we originally thought, which is wonderful. (of course we’re all just guessing..sigh) So as of now, I am home until Feb 23 or so.. I haven’t bought my plane tickets yet, I can’t even afford them, so I can’t give an exact date, but what that means is I will be up on emails and I will schedule my next few webcam shows and Ill be here for you guys until then. And I promise I’ll always keep you up to date with what’s going on with me, so you’re never left in the dark.

So there you go and I’m sorry about those hidden emails.. DOH!

Have a great weekend everyone!

Aaliyah Love XOXO <3


I Sleep With Whom I Want/Bisexuality

When I was younger, I was very uncomfortable with the word “bisexual.” Instead, I would say “I sleep was whom I want” and thought I was being quite witty.
My problem with it was, yes, I had feelings, sexual and other, for men and women, but the feelings were not the same. I do not feel the same during sex with men or women and I did not have the same feelings in my heart for men and women. I would write cheesy blogs like this…

“I love a women’s body, how soft and sweet it is…” THAT’S how I explained the wonderfulness that women are? Weak!

But when I was young, I did not have the chance to have the same experiences sexually with women that I did with men. Until then, I had only slept with women on camera. Most of the time it was someone I have just met. I didn’t have the time to go on a date with a girl, to flirt with a girl, to hold her she sleeps and wake up next to her in the morning (but now I have!;)
It doesn’t help that bisexuality is not completely socially acceptable yet. Even in the gay community, by lesbians and gay men, I have seen it many times. (But that’s a conversation for another blog post on another day..)

And now I realize how ridiculous that sentiment was. I don’t even have the same feelings for each PERSON I’ve dated. Or each person I’ve fucked. I have different feelings of all sorts for each person I’ve been with. Each person as an individual, I’m attracted to in a certain way. I have certain chemistry which with each person that only we can share. The way we fuck each other and relate to each other is different for each person, obviously.
When I’m with the woman I’m attracted to, I instantly feel a sisterhood. I can relate to the things she goes through socially, mentally, and physically. We share common experiences and when we will talk, I can connect on that level of us both being women. (Something only women would understand, I think, and I’m having a hard time explaining it) and the sex.. Sex with women is amazing for me. I touch them everywhere and they touch me everywhere because everywhere they touch, well, feels incredible. They please me, I please them, and it’s so easy because we have the same “parts,” we kiss, we hold each other, it’s amazing.


And when I am with a man.. I feel like men and women sort of see each other as a mystery. We are two different people of different genders trying to figure each other out. We see the world through different eyes, and we’re trying to explain it to each other. It’s kind of a game of chase, there’s mystery and excitement involved. In the bedroom when I’m with a man, I like to be a little more submissive. I like my man to take control of me. Tell me what to do. Tell me I’m doing it just right. I like to touch him in certain areas, and he touches me in certain areas, because those are the areas men and women like to feel on each other. And out of the bedroom, sort of the same. Sometimes I need a man to tell me “You’ve been getting ready for two hours now, we are leaving right now or we will be late.” I think it’s sexy when I can trust a man enough to give up control for a few minutes.. I feel safe, protected, cared for.


I love men. I love women. I enjoy sex with both. I guess that makes me.. Bisexual.
I’m bisexual.

I’m Aaliyah Love and I sleep with whom I want.


Aaliyah Love XOXO <3

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